December 18, 2013
Well from my last post in November nothing much has changed except.......well, actually really nothing. I'm still or MORE bitter than I was before. It amazes me that J STILL doesn't take responsibility for his actions and according to Dr. E we're supposed to let him do or complete his task AFTER J decides when he is done with what he wants even though he didn't complete the task in the first place. It was Tuesday, December 17, 2013 when the argument started. I noticed that J cleaned out the litter box but I noticed some litter on the floor that he DIDN'T sweep up. So I asked him if he has swept the floor when he cleaned the litter box and he said NO! So I asked him to come sweep the floor to complete your task and of course he said OK, I'll do it AFTER I finish my bible study. I said, "No come do it and complete your task." J says, "I will AFTER I finish my Bible Study." So we get into it and I leave the house for the time being until we need to go to Dr. E for his therapy session.
Therapy session: I thought it was a good day for J to have a session by himself with Dr. E. So J tells Dr. E about our encounter this morning and J presents it in a way that it's my fault. So, Dr. E. talks with J and after he talks with J, Dr. E asks me to come in and talk with him. So I sit and talk with Dr. E and Dr. E tells me that I could have or should have waited for J to finish his Bible Study rather than get into it with J. THEN I'm supposed to talk with J about doing the COMPLETE task done in one task rather than in two phases. I asked Dr. E, " do you know HOW many times we have talked to him about the SAME thing? MANY times!!!" "Why should I have to wait for him to complete what HE wants to do rather than have him do what I ask him to do?" But Dr. E. wants me to have waited for him to finish his Bible Study THEN go sweep the floor. I GUARANTEE that he would have forgotten like normal.
Well, I guess this is why our house in an upheaval b/c J IS the head of the household rather than him being the child and he's SUPPOSED to be honoring the parents like what GOD has commanded him to do. But I guess the rules don't apply to J at all!!! So until J obeys what God says we will never have peace in the household. LOL, and it's funny that he tells Dr. E that he wants peace and harmony in the family. Well to have peace and harmony in the family, J needs to obey and honor the parents in the family but J doesn't realize that J IS going against what he is reading in the Bible everyday!!! He's going against what he says in the Boy Scout Law weekly.
But that's just me!! I'm just saying.
