January 3, 2013
Wow, it's 2013! How is your 2013 starting out? I sure hope it's better than mine. Mine was quite interesting and STILL not sure about how to take it or handle it.
New Years Eve Eve - I got a text from J (a friend of mine) and asked if we wanted to come over for NYE. I haven't answered back b/c not sure if W wanted to do that. I haven't been sure a lot of things late with him. I mean if I were alone, I would be doing all kinds of stuff. I know he's 50 something but do you HAVE to seem like you're 90 something. I mean, his mom is more active than he is!! Sheesh!!! Anyways, I told him I received a call/text from her and told him what she was wanting. He sort of grunted! Not sure what that meant but I didn't say anything an waited for him to think about it. I waiting until S (J's hubby) texted me and asked me the same question. But first let me retract. I waited a while and thought I would text Jamie to let her know I got her vm and that we weren't going to be going to spend NYE with them b/c I didn't think he would want his mom to be alone on NYE. I showed W the text I was going to send out. He told me to hold off on that and still thinking about it. Now back to S's text with that same question. I texted back to let S know that I was waiting for W's answer but for me I would love to come but waiting for W. Stupid me, I show W S's text back to me but he had seen my answer to S. So he finally decides and we go.
New Years Eve - We get to J & S's house around 3:30ish and get settled in. Walking into their house there is their friends. We talk a little bit and they left around 5ish. We are all getting ready to go out to dinner. We have reservations at 6:30. Get to dinner at 6:30 and start in with the margi's. Well, W hasn't been drinking in a while but he pounds them down like it's water. I know by the time we finish with dinner he's a drunk (not sure the level of drunkenness but drunk never the less). Me, I kept to having wine. I last a long time when I drink wine vs if I drank Margi's. I would have been passed out on the couch by that time we finished dinner. So we leave the restaurant and the boys want to go to the store to get Margi stuff to make at home. Well, mind you we JUST finished with dinner and have had so much food that I'm ready to explode. W is driving and I tell him to not drive so crazy or else I'm really going to have to get out of the car. So W chimes in and says, "Oh what, now I can't drive and so you could just drive." Proceeds to park the car in the grocery store and slams the door. J looks at me and I tell her, "see what I have to deal with." I say nothing. I wait patiently in the car until the boys come out of the grocery store with their goods. Then W says, "what you're not in the driver seat?" Then J's son chimes in "no, she's playing a game on my phone." I just sit there and say nothing. Of course he won't remember what he said and how he said it b/c he is that way when he gets drunk. He's a mean drunk in disguise. He doesn't know but that's what he is. I've noticed that over the years and of course he doesn't remember anything mean he says to mean. I guess when you're drunk the REAL feelings come out b/c then you can give that excuse that you don't remember! :( Pretty sad if you ask me.
NY Day - wake up and W is all nice and refreshed (sort of). I suspect that he feels tire b/c he's all hung over or close to it. He wonders why he's so tired! Hmmmmmm, I wonder why?!!! Duh!!! You've been drinking the night before pinhead!!! OMGosh!!!! Anyways, he doesn't remember what he says the day before. Typical and I haven't mentioned anything.
I guess you can say that with J (son) it was pretty good. He had his moments (real idiot) but he did good. I'm not sure what's worse for J, being with someone that he's an idiot too, or by himself and being an idiot. So either way he's an idiot. I say it b/c I know he won't see this!!! I know it's terrible but it's true!!!
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